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	<title>Self Help Lobby &#187; Personal Growth</title>
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		<title>Change Your Outlook On Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 16:56:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abdul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you becoming a pessimistic person? Do you commonly find things that are wrong, rather than the positives in any given situation? It&#8217;s time to change your outlook on life. Did you know that just by changing your outlook on life you can actually improve your health? Here are some quick tips you can use, [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you becoming a pessimistic person? Do you commonly find things that are wrong, rather than the positives in any given situation? It&#8217;s time to change your outlook on life.</p>
<p>Did you know that just by changing your outlook on life you can actually improve your health? Here are some quick tips you can use, starting now:</p>
<p>* Practice positive thinking. There&#8217;s only one way you will change your way of thinking-with lots of practice. In order to create new habits, you must repeatedly practice it on a daily basis. So put on your positive thinking hat.</p>
<p>* Look for the good things. It doesn&#8217;t take much effort to point out everything that&#8217;s wrong. When you find yourself nit-picking, make yourself stop and then purposefully look for something good, instead.</p>
<p>* Forgive, even if you can&#8217;t forget. The old saying, &#8220;Forgive and forget&#8221; has been used quite a bit throughout the years. But we all know that forgiving is often times easier than forgetting. Take a small step towards forgiveness. While you won&#8217;t forget what happened, forgiveness prevents bitterness, which is extremely taxing, on both your soul and your mind.</p>
<p>* Be ready for the best. No matter what kind of life you&#8217;ve had up to this point, there is always hope for the future. If you&#8217;ve been struggling, prepare yourself for better things to come. Sometimes the darkest night is just before the dawn.</p>


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		<title>Are You Bringing Stress Home With You</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 17:18:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abdul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[According to the experts at the Centers for Disease Control and the National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health, stress is linked to both physical and mental health, as well as decreased willingness to take on new and creative endeavors. With this kind of findings, it is no wonder that so many people feel burned [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>According to the experts at the Centers for Disease Control and the National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health, stress is linked to both physical and mental health, as well as decreased willingness to take on new and creative endeavors. With this kind of findings, it is no wonder that so many people feel burned out every single day.</p>
<p>In addition, researchers found that up to 40% of job burnout in the United States is due to stress. Stress affects millions of people every single day. Much of marital and family problems occur because of stress being brought home from the work place. Take this quick quiz to see if you are bringing stress home with you.</p>
<p>Directions: Answer YES or NO to the following questions.</p>
<p>1) Do you feel as stressed out when you walk in the door of your home as you did when you left work?</p>
<p>2) Do you have a daily after-work routine that allows you to unwind and de-stress?</p>
<p>3) Do your work problems weigh heavily on your mind, even when you are trying to have a nice relaxing evening at home?</p>
<p>4) Do you find it difficult to carry on a conversation with your spouse that doesn&#8217;t have something to do with work-related issues?</p>
<p>5) Are you able to deal with problems at work in a calm manner?</p>
<p>If you answered YES to three or more of these questions, chances are you are bringing stress home with you. Here are some possible solutions you should try:</p>
<p>* Sign up for a gym pass. Go at least 3 days per week after work to work out your frustrations.</p>
<p>* See a therapist. Sometimes all you need is a good therapist to listen to you and help you figure out how to better deal with work stress.</p>
<p>* Go for massage therapy. A professional masseuse can do wonders for tired, sore muscles that are due to stress.</p>


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		<title>5 Golden Nuggets For Creativity</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 10:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abdul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you creative juices drying up? Do you feel like it&#8217;s just too difficult to come up with new ideas? Believe it or not, creativity is not something that only comes and goes with a Muse. Creativity can be generated and conjured simply by becoming active. Here are three terrific ways to stir up your [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you creative juices drying up? Do you feel like it&#8217;s just too difficult to come up with new ideas? Believe it or not, creativity is not something that only comes and goes with a Muse. Creativity can be generated and conjured simply by becoming active.</p>
<p>Here are three terrific ways to stir up your creativity and generate fresh inspiration today:</p>
<p>1) Spend a day out. If you are always in the office, you probably hardly ever stop to take the time to get out. Make a &#8220;play&#8221; date with yourself. Visit a local museum or take a trip to an aquarium. Do something totally out of the norm. You&#8217;ll feel inspiration stirring soon!</p>
<p>2) Get a hobby. Do you always feel overworked? If you don&#8217;t take time for yourself, you&#8217;ll constantly be stressed out. A hobby can not only help relax you, but take your mind off work for a while.</p>
<p>3) Go for a walk. Studies have shown that exercise helps to promote creativity. If you&#8217;re feeling especially low on ideas, put on your walking shoes and head outside for a 2-0-minute walk. Bring a pocket notebook or camera to capture ideas as they come to you.</p>
<p>4) Listen to classical music. Great classicals can stir your creativity like nothing else can. Go for Beethoven or Bach. Close your eyes for the first few minutes as you allow the musical notes to waft over you.</p>
<p>5) Solve a problem. If your lack of creativity right now is mostly due to a personal problem, there&#8217;s only one way around it. Grab a pen and paper and write down the problem. Now brainstorm ways to solve that problem.</p>


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		<title>Get More Sleep Now</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 09:22:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abdul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you have trouble falling asleep at night? Do you go to sleep, but wake up frequently throughout the night? There are several kinds of sleep disorders, all of which plague hundreds of thousands of people every night. If you&#8217;ve been having trouble sleeping, here are some things you can try to help you get [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you have trouble falling asleep at night? Do you go to sleep, but wake up frequently throughout the night? There are several kinds of sleep disorders, all of which plague hundreds of thousands of people every night. If you&#8217;ve been having trouble sleeping, here are some things you can try to help you get more sleep every night:</p>
<p>* Get more physical exercise during the day. People who are more sedentary throughout the day especially tend to have more trouble sleeping at night. It is important to move around during the day so that you&#8217;ll be tired enough at night to sleep.</p>
<p>* Have a bedtime routine. While you might have set a routine for your children at night, you probably have neglected to do the same for yourself. Try setting a bedtime routine for yourself and see if it will help you sleep better.</p>
<p>* Take a warm bath about an hour before bedtime. If you are overly tired, a soothing warm bubble bath could be just what you need to calm your nerves. Add a dash of lavender bubble bath, too.</p>
<p>* Journal before you go to sleep. Sometimes the main cause of sleepless nights is worry. When you go to bed with worry and trouble on your mind, you tend to wake up more and have more restless nights. Try journaling just before bed, to get out all those pent-up thoughts and emotions.</p>
<p>* Use aromatherapy to soothe yourself before bedtime. Lots of people swear by aromatherapy and use it to help them sleep at night. Plug in your favorite, calming scent and turn on some soothing classical music for a lullaby.</p>


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		<title>A Personal Growth Plan, Your Path Toward Self Actualization</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 14:07:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abdul</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you have a personal growth plan? Maybe you do without even being fully aware of it. What is &#8220;self-actualization&#8221; and how will you know when you become self-actualized?  You may have heard these terms being tossed about without fully understanding what they mean.</p>
<p>A personal growth plan means that you are taking measured steps toward becoming the best &#8220;you&#8221; you can be. You may be working on improving your self-esteem, taking a class in yoga or writing in a journal. You may be doing these things without actually having a formal plan in mind.</p>
<p>You can think about your personal growth plan a process while being self-actualized is a destination. Self-actualization is the fulfillment of the potential you have inside of you. It is the end result, the realization, of everything you are capable of becoming in your innermost being. When you become self-actualized, you can look over your life with the satisfaction of knowing you are fulfilling your personal destiny.</p>
<p>Quite a lofty goal, but one which can be reached with a measure of desire, work and planning. Set aside some time to determine the things you feel you need to work on to get closer to the person you were meant to be. Make a conscious effort to find out where you want to go with your life before you lay out the steps in your personal growth plan that are necessary for you to get there.</p>
<p>Consider committing your plan to writing, perhaps in a journal. This can help you identify the areas of personal development you feel you most need to work on and enable you to see your progress as move forward with your personal growth plan.</p>
<p>Consider your personal growth plan as an investment in your present and future happiness. By creating a plan you are consciously making a commitment to expand your horizons and continue on the path of self-growth. Many small steps can make a big difference in your life.</p>


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		<title>Are You Good Enough</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 08:16:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abdul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Self-esteem is an important part of every person&#8217;s life. Low self-esteem seems to be a plague among many children and adults alike. Feeling like you&#8217;re never &#8220;good enough&#8221; creates a continuous circular motion of low self-esteem and self-worth. This article will define self esteem and give you some specific ways you can build your own [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Self-esteem is an important part of every person&#8217;s life. Low self-esteem seems to be a plague among many children and adults alike. Feeling like you&#8217;re never &#8220;good enough&#8221; creates a continuous circular motion of low self-esteem and self-worth. This article will define self esteem and give you some specific ways you can build your own self-esteem.</p>
<p>Self-esteem is defined as a feeling of pride in yourself. Self-esteem is usually thought of as a result of your environment. If you were abused as a child, you probably grew up with low or no self-esteem.</p>
<p>Signs of low self-esteem can include:</p>
<p>* The need for certain things to be perfect.</p>
<p>* Unrealistic expectations for self and/or others.</p>
<p>* Possessing a &#8220;herd&#8221; mentality (doing what everyone else does).</p>
<p>* Constant feelings of unhappiness.</p>
<p>* No self-confidence.</p>
<p>* Focusing on problems, rather than solutions.</p>
<p>* A pessimistic attitude.</p>
<p>It is possible to build your self-esteem if you have low or no self-esteem. You should be aware though that this takes time, and is not something that happens in an instant. That being said, here are some simple ways you can work on having a more positive self-esteem:</p>
<p>* Allow yourself to dream big for yourself.</p>
<p>* Set measurable goals that you can accomplish.</p>
<p>* Keep a file of nice compliments others pay you. Refer to this file when you&#8217;re feeling down or need a quick boost of confidence.</p>
<p>* Surround yourself with positive people.</p>
<p>* Assign yourself a personal cheerleader and call on that person when you need motivating.</p>
<p>* Don&#8217;t make assumptions. Instead, search for truth and facts when you begin to feel out of control.</p>


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		<title>Personal Growth Therapy</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 01:25:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you reached a point in your life where you feel you aren&#8217;t getting anywhere in your quest for personal development? You may feel as if you are mired in the mud of self-doubt and are covering the same territory over and over without making any real progress. If so, you may want to consider [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you reached a point in your life where you feel you aren&#8217;t getting anywhere in your quest for personal development?  You may feel as if you are mired in the mud of self-doubt and are covering the same territory over and over without making any real progress. If so, you may want to consider personal growth therapy.</p>
<p>Personal growth therapy, either one-on-one or in a group, focuses on helping you understand yourself better and put you back on the track to realizing your true potential.</p>
<p>Sometimes we get so caught up in our own lives that we don&#8217;t see the complete picture. The old cliche, &#8220;you can&#8217;t see the forest for the trees,&#8221; comes to mind. Personal growth therapy can give you a different perspective on your life and help you identify the barriers which are holding you back.</p>
<p>There may be things about yourself that you don&#8217;t want to admit, even to yourself. You may have made bad decisions in your life, have issues from your childhood or have trouble maintaining relationships. Talking with a counselor trained in personal growth therapy can pave the way to your accepting yourself, warts and all.</p>
<p>No path to personal development is ever easy. Each of us has things we need to work through in order to become the person we were meant to be. Often, patterns we learned as children can stand in the way of our happiness as adults and our growth toward becoming self-actualized human beings. Personal growth therapy can help us explore places inside us where we may not be able to go on our own.</p>
<p>If you feel that your life has become stagnant and you don&#8217;t know which way to turn, personal growth therapy may be able to help you identify the steps you need to take in order to grow in a positive direction and keep you focused on your self-improvement goals.</p>


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		<title>I Don&#039;t Have Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 00:23:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abdul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How often have you said those exact words? We are each allotted 24 hours every day. Yet somehow we don&#8217;t all seem to have enough time to do what needs to be done. If you&#8217;ve been complaining about not having enough time lately, here are some simple ways you can shave minutes off your daily [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How often have you said those exact words? We are each allotted 24 hours every day. Yet somehow we don&#8217;t all seem to have enough time to do what needs to be done.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve been complaining about not having enough time lately, here are some simple ways you can shave minutes off your daily activities.</p>
<p>* Set the coffee pot before you go to bed. Almost all coffee pots today come with a clock and timer. If you&#8217;re a coffee drinker, fix your coffee and set the timer the night before. If you set it to brew 15 minutes before your alarm goes off, it will be ready and waiting for you when you wake up.</p>
<p>* Use the crock pot. The crock pot is quite possibly one of the most underused kitchen essentials. You can create endless dinners by simply combining everything in the pot and letting it cook on low heat all day. When you come home from work, you have a ready-made hot dinner.</p>
<p>*  Iron your clothes on the weekend. If you only iron for one person, you are probably spending at least 2-3 hours total ironing. If you have a family and iron for everyone else, too, that number is probably tripled. Make Saturday your laundry day: wash, dry, and iron all clothing for the week.</p>
<p>* Share your responsibilities. Don&#8217;t try to do everything on your own. Create a family chore chart and dole out jobs to each of your family members. Even if you have young children, they can help out, too.</p>


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		<title>Relieve Your Stress With A Hobby</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 19:02:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abdul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stress is one of the major factors of depression. With growing demands of everyday life, stress can quickly pull you down. One of the easiest ways to relieve stress is to have a hobby. Maybe you&#8217;d like to take up a hobby but aren&#8217;t sure what to do. Here are some great ideas for stress-soothing [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stress is one of the major factors of depression. With growing demands of everyday life, stress can quickly pull you down. One of the easiest ways to relieve stress is to have a hobby.</p>
<p>Maybe you&#8217;d like to take up a hobby but aren&#8217;t sure what to do. Here are some great ideas for stress-soothing hobbies:</p>
<p>* Wood burning and carving &#8211; Men especially find wood burning projects very calming and soothing. Likewise, sculpting beautiful images from wood can be not only a stress reliever, but rewarding hobby as well.</p>
<p>* Ceramics &#8211; Ceramics is almost a lost art today. However, the process of taking a raw piece and creating a beautiful work of art is a very rewarding hobby.</p>
<p>* Reading for pleasure &#8211; If you do a lot of reading every day for your business, then you probably don&#8217;t read for pleasure any more. Grab a book in a genre that you&#8217;d never read and give it a go.</p>
<p>* Hand embroidery &#8211; Designing and creating beautiful fiber art by hand is extremely calming.</p>
<p>* Golf &#8211; Golf has been widely used as a stress-relieving hobby. Many golf enthusiasts claim that golf can take your mind off your problems and greatly reduce your stress levels.</p>
<p>No matter what hobby you take up, the idea is to do something to relieve stress. Set aside time every week to work on your hobby and you&#8217;ll soon find that your stress levels will be greatly reduced in very little time.</p>


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		<title>6 Ways To Increase Your Creativity</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 18:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abdul</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Creativity is the ability to create, also known as the creative process. Sometimes though creativity seems to fall through the ground and you might feel like you just can&#8217;t possibly think of anything to do to help it. If your creativity levels have been low lately, here are six ways to increase your creativity: 1. [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Creativity is the ability to create, also known as the creative process. Sometimes though creativity seems to fall through the ground and you might feel like you just can&#8217;t possibly think of anything to do to help it. If your creativity levels have been low lately, here are six ways to increase your creativity:</p>
<p>1. Don&#8217;t dwell on your lack of creativity. The worse thing to do if you&#8217;re feeling uncreative is to sit around and think about how you don&#8217;t feel creative. Get up and do something else instead.</p>
<p>2. Keep an idea bank. An idea bank is a necessary source for you to draw ideas from when your creativity levels are low. Stock pile your idea bank when your creative juices are flowing and then you will have lots of creativity to draw from later.</p>
<p>3. Ask lots of questions. One really good way to get that creativity flowing again is to ask a lot of &#8220;What if&#8230;?&#8221; questions. Those can really get your mind to thinking about things you might not ordinarily consider.</p>
<p>4. Create mini challenges for yourself. Challenges are a great way to really prime the creative pump. Set some small goals for creative things you want to accomplish.</p>
<p>5. Set a self-imposed deadline. Deadlines have a tendency to make us work harder and faster to accomplish our goals. If your lack of creativity has caused you to procrastinate, set a deadline.</p>
<p>6. Move your work space around. Sometimes something as simple as moving the furniture in a different position can jar you out of a creative slump. Give it a try and see if it works for you.</p>


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